Advice for Women – Female Sexuality, Insights & Tips!

A relationship built on trust is essential to long term success. And in all the years I’ve been providing sex advice, this is the issue that so frequently seems to stall or kill the fire in a relationship. So when beginning something new, you should get rid of the old completely. Sometimes, however, this can be done by talking about past relationships with your new partner. Your partner may ask or you may choose to talk about it. Remember though that the past should remain in the past. So, do not talk about your ex too much; your partner may feel that he is in a competition for your affection. Talking about past relationships is just about sharing, but not about obsessing. After that short talk, do not ever mention your ex again.

Do not back-bite your ex. This can be viewed by your new partner as immature. It may even scare him away or make him jealous because you still sound bitter about the breakup. Do not praise your ex as if he was some sort of god, either. This can make your new partner very suspicious and insecure. If you catch yourself doing this, try to see if you are actually on the rebound – maybe you still love your ex and are being unfair to your new partner. In short, you should be honest but detached.

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