Advice for Women – Female Sexuality, Insights & Tips!

Many men have made the mistake of jumping right in, totally forgetting foreplay. The kind of reaction that they get from us women is usually less than enthusiastic. Little to zero foreplay is like stepping on the gas of your car, when you’ve just turned on the engine. It’s just too much too soon.

Just think of foreplay as a way of heating things up. Being women, we often feel that there has to be something more besides the sexual act itself. Oftentimes, we need to be wooed. We need a kiss or two, and a teasing touch first before we get down to business. Creativity in the bedroom can also help heat things up. As a matter of fact, some women respond positively to adult games or the use of sex toys during foreplay.

If you get foreplay right, then you will definitely know that you did. An amazing foreplay can lead to a mind-blowing climax. This is because a thoroughly lubricated woman will find the sexual act more pleasurable. You will react more positively and travel up the road toward orgasm with your partner.

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Fetishes may be an awkward thing to talk about with your partner. But then, there might come a time when you’d have to. Fetishes are a part of you. While a number of people may not feel the same way about your passions, they are a part of who you are and you need to come out with the truth. If you have a fetish for sex games or for using strap on sex toys, you can’t just forever avoid talking about it with your partner. Who knows? Perhaps your partner might even share it, so you’d end up having a very willing playmate.

When talking to your partner about your fetish, remember to expect a few awkward moments. You may even feel rejection at some point. This can be expected as not everyone is open to fetishes. Whatever you do, you need to be comfortable with what you are coming out with. Ideally, your partner will feel this comfort and ease, and he or she will eventually come to accept it. Your fetishes can, after all, be a lot of fun when they are realized between two consenting adults.

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There are topics that we have labeled as girl talk — things ranging from clothes and make up to the latest place to hang out and be seen. Also, there are discussions that are exclusive to us women, particularly those that involve our intimate encounters. Men are not allowed to come near us when we are having this special kind of bonding with our girl friends.

If you are in an intimate relationship, should you really tell all the juicy stuff to your girl friends? Okay, probably you just need to talk about a sensitive issue with your friends and ask for their advice. Or, there are times that you just want to share how wonderful your boyfriend or husband is, especially in the bedroom.

However, you really have to be careful as to how much information you share with your girl friends. Once you shared information, it is hard to control it from spreading. True, you may have trustworthy friends. But there is always that risk of someone unintentionally slipping portions of that private talk in another conversation. So, if you kiss and tell, make sure that you don’t spill every detail. Also, think about how your man would feel if he finds out you’ve been sharing intimate details, such as his penchant for using penis pumps or exotic condoms.

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When you have been married for quite some time, it is understandable that either you or your husband will start looking for things that can spice up your sex life. One of the ways to do this is to start playing bedroom games. These “naughty” activities will enhance your physical intimacy, resulting in a more satisfying sexual experience.

When choosing an adult game to play, you have to consider each of your characteristics and preferences. Are you naturally playful? Does your husband happen to be a bit uptight? Do you or your husband have conventional beliefs? The answers to these questions can influence the type of sex game you choose and how this sex game can be played out in the bedroom.

If this will be your first time to try a sex game with your husband, you might want to open up the topic first with him before you try anything. You don’t want to prepare something that your husband might not approve of. On the other hand, if your husband is an adventurous person, then go ahead and surprise him in the bedroom.

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Role playing in bed is, perhaps, one of the most common if not THE most common sex game played by couples. Role playing involves your creativity and resourcefulness. The sexual experience is intensified if the mind is also being tickled during the encounter.

And there is no better way to amuse the mind than to play along with one’s dreams and fantasies. Both men and women daydream several moments each day. These fantasies may be sexual in nature or may just be simple visualizations of things or situations other than where the person is in. These fantasies can be so powerful that, if used correctly, they can enhance your bedroom encounters, which are starting to become boring and predictable.

Before you start role playing, you and your partner should talk about it first. That way, it will be easier to choose the scenarios that you can explore or the characters that you can pretend to be. Later on, you or your partner may surprise one another by using random characters or impromptu situations for role playing.

Another tip is that before or during role playing, you can also add more excitement by using sexual aids such as penis pumps. There are also a variety of lesbian sex toys or gay sex toys that can make role-playing in bed more pleasurable.

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If you’ve been married for several years, you know that marriage isn’t always a bed of roses. Although, there are several things you can do to spice things up — in and out of bed. Passion and excitement can make a difference in a marriage. You can be awakened from the lull of the day-to-day, such as the chores and responsibilities that you share with your spouse. If there’s passion and excitement in your marriage, you can somehow relive the time when you and your husband were a lot younger and had less care. Also, being passionate translates to having more fun and spice in the bedroom.

So how do you spice things up? Variation, for one thing, is sure to reignite dormant heat. Deviating from the routine may mean something as simple as picking up a small gift for him. It can also mean an extra special dinner you cooked just for your husband. Or, it can also be that extra accessory you bring to bed. Sex toys have been credited for renewed excitement between several couples, and you should definitely be openminded about using them. Cock rings and strap on sex toys are just some of the “props” that can liven up the sparks between you and your hubby.

Whatever it is you need to take to spice things up a bit, these steps are always worth it. Bringing back the spice in your marriage prevents relationship plateaus that can lead to boredom or, worse, infidelity.

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Sometimes, daily responsibilities and chores can douse the heat of wedded bliss. You and your husband may feel less inclined in getting hot and heavy. Or, you may just do the same old bed routine — out of habit or, worse, complacency.

Sex is an important part of a marital partnership. And the best way to keep things going is to keep things hot. So how can you do this with a partner/companion/husband you’ve been with for years? That’s actually where the “extras” come in.

Extras can pertain to prolonged foreplay that you start outside the bedroom. Write or text a sexy note for him to read while in the office. For sure, he won’t be able to wait to get home.

Or, it can mean bringing in implements, such as oral sex toys, into your lovemaking. There are different toys designed for him and for you, all of which intensify the sexual experience, such as prostate toys and pussy pumps.

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Let’s face it, some men are clueless on how to please their wives, whether in bed or what to give them for Mother’s Day. Women, even after 20 or so years of marriage, can still remain a mystery. And because we’re a bit difficult to figure out sometimes, we might as well provide small clues here and there on how our husbands can really please us.

There are a lot of things our husbands can do to make us happy, but in general we want men who know how to show their appreciation and men who do not need to be told what to do. This goes for the bedroom as well as for matters around the house. Is the garbage bin overflowing? Men should show the initiative to take the trash out instead of us asking them to do it. Does your husband still can’t decide whether to get you a piece of jewelry or just give you flowers and take you out to a fancy dinner during your anniversary? Drop hints on why he should just do both.

In bed, the love-making act should be a two-way street. Men should experiment on ways to make the sexual act more satisfying not just for them but also for us women as well. And one way to experiment is to have a sex game that’ll titillate both partners.

Men should compliment their wives or partners when they see them sporting a new haircut or wearing a new dress. Most of the time, hearing a simple comment about how great we look from our husbands or boyfriends is enough to keep the spark alive in the relationship.

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