Advice for Women - Female Sexuality, Insights & Tips! » Relationships http://www.angiescouch.com Female Sexuality, Relationship Advice & How To Have a Better Sex Life! Wed, 09 Dec 2009 17:10:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 en hourly 1 How to Make Your Man Listen More without Yelling http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/30/how-to-make-your-man-listen-more-without-yelling/ http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/30/how-to-make-your-man-listen-more-without-yelling/#comments Mon, 31 Aug 2009 01:43:25 +0000 Angie Johnson http://www.angiescouch.com/?p=195 Yelling will just make your man hear you but he won’t be listening. So, it is better to find ways that will make him see your side instead of just see you as the enemy. The best thing you can do is act in a civilized manner. Write him a short note, inviting him for a talk. You may even invite him on a date, your treat. This way, he will come willingly to hear you out. When it is time to talk, do not take advantage of the moment to nag. Air your feelings. Make sure you give him a chance to speak as well. This way, the next time you two will have a heart-to-heart talk, he won’t be terrified to take you up on your invitation. If your very problem is to get him to look at you at all, much less listen, wait patiently for his free time. For example, if he is with friends watching a game on tv, do not demand to talk to him at that very moment. Instead, politely ask him to reserve time after the game for you.

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Talk to your boyfriend

Have a heart-to-heart talk with your boyfriend. Tell him that his jealousy is making you feel not just uncomfortable but downright unhappy. Ask him about his side, as well. Maybe you are unknowingly doing some things that can make a man jealous.

Reassure your boyfriend

If you want to save your relationship, reassure your boyfriend about your commitment. Make him feel secure about his place in your heart. If he continues being irrationally jealous, maybe it is time to let go. You may both just end up very unhappy. If you want to hold on, you can try couples’ counseling.

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]]> http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/28/how-to-handle-an-overly-jealous-boyfriend/feed/ 0 The MUSTs in Building an Honest Relationship http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/24/the-musts-in-building-an-honest-relationship/ http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/24/the-musts-in-building-an-honest-relationship/#comments Tue, 25 Aug 2009 01:36:00 +0000 Angie Johnson http://www.angiescouch.com/?p=189 If you want a great relationship, you and your partner must practice open communication. This means that your relationship is cemented by honesty coming from both sides. It is a relationship with no secrets and lies. Just imagine if you catch your partner lying. Will you still be happy about being with him? You will end up suspecting everything he does, whether he’s innocent or not.

Share thoughts and ideas

Your relationship should not be purely physical. If it’s real love, you will enjoy hearing about each other’s day. Share your ideas about things that may interest both of you. Be open about your past life without sounding wistful. Just show him how much you want him to be part of your life.

Avoid even the smallest lies

There is the little white lie and there is that harmless lie that may just cause trouble. The white lie makes you avoid hurting your partner. The other supposedly harmless lie is something that may be attached to something big. For example, if you lie about where you were and you got discovered, he may interpret it differently. You may just be there for a more innocent reason.

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]]> http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/24/the-musts-in-building-an-honest-relationship/feed/ 0 How to Beat the Green-eyed Monster in You http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/18/how-to-beat-the-green-eyed-monster-in-you/ http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/18/how-to-beat-the-green-eyed-monster-in-you/#comments Wed, 19 Aug 2009 01:26:32 +0000 Angie Johnson http://www.angiescouch.com/?p=183 Jealousy can destroy a relationship just as much as real infidelity can. The extreme end of it, which you may call the green-eyed monster, is sometimes a sign of something much more serious. It may be a sign of possessiveness, insecurity, and past relationship problems. If you are constantly jealous of your partner, you should find ways to manage your emotions before your worst fears come true.

Managing yourself

Get to the root of your jealousy problem. Ask yourself if there is a reason for your jealousy. Maybe your partner is really showing signs and you are just being logical. Present the situation to a trusted, unbiased friend and get her opinion. Think of your personal reasons for being jealous. Maybe you are punishing your present partner for your ex’s fault.

Seeking help

If your problem is deeply-rooted, you should consult a counselor. Maybe past relationships have severely wounded you, causing you to ruin your present relationship without meaning to. Another reason for consulting a counselor is if your jealousy is rooted from insecurity and extreme fear of being abandoned.

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]]> http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/18/how-to-beat-the-green-eyed-monster-in-you/feed/ 0 Talking about Past Relationships with Your Partner http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/16/talking-about-past-relationships-with-your-partner/ http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/16/talking-about-past-relationships-with-your-partner/#comments Mon, 17 Aug 2009 01:24:58 +0000 Angie Johnson http://www.angiescouch.com/?p=181 A relationship built on trust is essential to long term success. And in all the years I’ve been providing sex advice, this is the issue that so frequently seems to stall or kill the fire in a relationship. So when beginning something new, you should get rid of the old completely. Sometimes, however, this can be done by talking about past relationships with your new partner. Your partner may ask or you may choose to talk about it. Remember though that the past should remain in the past. So, do not talk about your ex too much; your partner may feel that he is in a competition for your affection. Talking about past relationships is just about sharing, but not about obsessing. After that short talk, do not ever mention your ex again.

Do not back-bite your ex. This can be viewed by your new partner as immature. It may even scare him away or make him jealous because you still sound bitter about the breakup. Do not praise your ex as if he was some sort of god, either. This can make your new partner very suspicious and insecure. If you catch yourself doing this, try to see if you are actually on the rebound – maybe you still love your ex and are being unfair to your new partner. In short, you should be honest but detached.

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]]> http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/16/talking-about-past-relationships-with-your-partner/feed/ 0 Planning the Perfect Getaway with Your Partner http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/14/planning-the-perfect-getaway-with-your-partner/ http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/14/planning-the-perfect-getaway-with-your-partner/#comments Sat, 15 Aug 2009 01:22:12 +0000 Angie Johnson http://www.angiescouch.com/?p=179 A getaway is great for bonding with your partner. It can also be a source of relaxation for the both of you, especially in this fast-paced world. A relaxing yet romantic vacation can do wonders for your relationship. You should plan the details together. This way, the trip fits both of your schedules and tastes.

The perfect location

What sort of guy is he? The answer to this question will guide you as to where you should go. If he is the sporty sort, he might go for sunny locations with plenty of outdoor fun or even snowy slopes. If you are both up for adventure and a taste of culture, you can find a place that will be hopping with special celebrations on your visit.

The right budget

As much as splurging can create an unforgettable vacation, resist the temptation. Go for great deals. You do not want to be fighting long after the getaway is over. A perfect getaway can be arranged on a budget. What is important is the splash of personality and activity that will define it.

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]]> http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/14/planning-the-perfect-getaway-with-your-partner/feed/ 0 How to Make Your Anniversary Extra Special http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/12/how-to-make-your-anniversary-extra-special/ http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/12/how-to-make-your-anniversary-extra-special/#comments Thu, 13 Aug 2009 01:16:36 +0000 Angie Johnson http://www.angiescouch.com/?p=177 Usually when guys think of what a girl wants for their anniversary, they think that she just wants some bling. Little do they know that not all women are equating anniversaries to pricey gifts and upscale restaurants. Women just want their men to treat the day special. As for the ladies, they should not take their men for granted, either. Some men can be quite the sensitive type. In fact, the role can be reverse in some relationships.

The perfect gift

While you don’t have to give your man a BMW, you should not be cheap either. Think of an unusual anniversary gift. Men have already been bombarded with socks, ties and the like. Buy your man something that will make him feel special. An original gift or keepsake can make your man enjoy the celebration much better. Why not try creating your anniversary gift for him? If you are not the DIY crafts girl, you can have something engraved for him.

The perfect look

Dress appropriately. Show that you are making an effort to make the day feel and look special.

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]]> http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/12/how-to-make-your-anniversary-extra-special/feed/ 0 Why His Business Travel Matters to Your Relationship http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/06/why-his-business-travel-matters-to-your-relationship/ http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/06/why-his-business-travel-matters-to-your-relationship/#comments Thu, 06 Aug 2009 06:58:51 +0000 Angie Johnson http://www.angiescouch.com/?p=171 If you’re in a relationship with someone who travels a lot, then there are definitely a few questions that come to your mind. Can he still be faithful to me even when I’m not around? Can he not succumb to temptation when faces it? How can I ease my mind off about these issues when he’s away? Of course, most people would tell you that it all boils down to one thing — trust.

Ask yourself if you really trust your partner to be faithful to you at all times. Of course, you should have talked about this issue with your boyfriend or husband beforehand, telling him that infidelity is not acceptable. Thus, open communication is important to earn this trust. It would also help if any one of you would take the time to keep communication lines open. A few minutes spent over the phone or simple emails and text messages can do wonders.

Many women who are in the same situation mention that they are able to make their husbands faithful to them by packing sex toys in his luggage. These women think that when their partners have these male sex toys with them, there’s no need to look for women to fool around with.

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]]> http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/06/why-his-business-travel-matters-to-your-relationship/feed/ 0 Easy, Cowboy! Using Sex Toys to Teach Your Partner Patience and Rhythm http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/04/easy-cowboy-using-sex-toys-to-teach-your-partner-patience-and-rhythm/ http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/04/easy-cowboy-using-sex-toys-to-teach-your-partner-patience-and-rhythm/#comments Tue, 04 Aug 2009 06:57:43 +0000 Angie Johnson http://www.angiescouch.com/?p=168 Having an active sex life doesn’t mean that you’re leading a very satisfying one. We’ve all heard about our partners having an orgasm before we do, which can sometimes leave us hanging. There are even times when don’t even bother to climax anymore since we’ve already lost the mood. Thankfully, there’s one solution to all this — using sex toys.

It is a fact that men, on the average, take a shorter time to have an orgasm than women. How can sex toys help? First, men can use sex toys such as masturbators. Using these sex toys for men helps them practice prolonging the sexual act. Of course, you can guide your partner as he uses these implements. Tell him to take it easy and to enjoy the sensations he is feeling.

Then there are those toys that you can use as a couple. These can help you lengthen your foreplay sessions. If these objects are not his thing, then why not try sex games which may or may not involve sex toys. Before you know it, your partner would be looking forward to these sessions as much as the lovemaking act itself.

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]]> http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/08/04/easy-cowboy-using-sex-toys-to-teach-your-partner-patience-and-rhythm/feed/ 0 How Important is Sexual Chemistry in a Relationship? http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/07/31/how-important-is-sexual-chemistry-in-a-relationship/ http://www.angiescouch.com/2009/07/31/how-important-is-sexual-chemistry-in-a-relationship/#comments Sat, 01 Aug 2009 00:57:47 +0000 Angie Johnson http://www.angiescouch.com/?p=162 Your heart beats faster, your irises gets dilated. His gaze, and his chest, are continually centered upon you. Is this just lust or something else? Sexual chemistry just doesn’t come in when you two hit the sack and blow each other’s minds apart with bedroom antics; it actually oozes from your pores, goes up through your nose, and into your brains. Some say it’s fate while others blame nature for it. While a relationship shouldn’t just be based on how good your partner is in bed, how important is sexual chemistry really?

Sexual chemistry as something very important

Those who hook up with their friends and find the sex great stay on to have meaningful relationships. However, those who had crap sex usually just try hard to forget anything happened. Sexual chemistry is one of the foundations of a relationship. We are biologically inclined to find the best mate that matches us and if the sex just ain’t that happening, then it’s also against nature to stay in a relationship with that person.

However, if you started out with great compatibility and then find it waning, this doesn’t mean that you should jump ship and wait for the next guy who smells better. There are ways to rekindle that fire between the sheets through creativity and sometimes with the help of adult toys.

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