1. Take him on a date to do something he likes.

Does he want to watch that new action movie? Do you think he would want to go to a comic convention? Take him up on his preference and make it a date. He will be surprised that you are not dragging him to a chick flick.

2. Treat him to a massage.

After a long day at work, a massage may be all that he is wishing for. Offer him a calming massage with oils, candlelight, and the works. If you think you will not be able to soothe his aching limbs, schedule a weekend at the spa for both of you.

3. Wear something sexy.

Spice up your marriage with a sexy outfit that you’ve bought especially for him. It may be a sexy date outfit or something that you will be wearing for him in private. This might even lead to a little sex chat and foreplay, which will lead you guys in the right direction of course!

4. Buy him a gift.

Buy your husband a gift even when there is no occasion. The gift could be something he has always wanted or it could be just anything that you know will please him. Of course, some sex toys you could use together wouldn’t be a bad idea either!

5. Write him a love note.

With text messages making communication easier, a love note is rare and doubly romantic. Leave him a handwritten note to find in your house.

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Make bonding moments more pleasurable

You don’t have to make him skip work or to fight with his friends. This does not mean, however, that you are quitting the fight. Just treat him well when he is with you. Give him a back rub after a stressful week at work. This way, he will crave your company rather than his friends’.

Arrange your schedule

Maybe not being able to spend time together is due to your conflicting schedules. Talk about an arrangement that will make sure you will have time together every week. Even if you are very busy with your careers and other social responsibilities, you should value spending time together. This will help make your relationship stay strong.

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1. Most men masturbate. Yes, even men who are in healthy, monogamous relationships masturbate. It doesn’t mean though that he’s not satisfied with you in bed. For all you know, he could be thinking about the hot times he’s been having with you every time he masturbates.

2. Men have different masturbatory techniques. Some men prefer short and jerky hand movements. Others prefer long and steady strokes.

3. There’s more to masturbation than stroking the shaft. Believe it or not, some men find it more pleasurable to insert their fingers in their ass when they masturbate. When they do indulge in finger play, they are aiming for their prostate, which, when properly stimulated, can lead to more satisfying orgasms. This is the reason for the increasing popularity of sex toys for men such as dildos.

4. Some men also prefer to use lubricants when masturbating. Using a lubricant adds to the sensation during masturbation. Using lubricants allows their hands to glide freely as they stroke their penises.

5. Men can have the urge to masturbate at any time and at any place. They do it in restrooms, their office cubicles, and other places where they can be alone or can’t be seen.

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The most common sex toys for men are masturbators. These usually have specially designed orifices where men can insert their penises. Most of the time, the orifices are made to look like mouths, vaginas, and anuses. Also, the latest masturbators have a skin-like feel to them. One good example is the Fleshlight.

Then there are also male sex toys designed for anal penetration. Using these sex toys allows men to have more powerful orgasms because these objects can hit the prostrate, which is one of the most sensitive areas among males. Sex toys for men designed for anal penetration include dildos and dongs.

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From dating around to dating one

If you want to go exclusive but you’re not sure if he’s really into you, try sending the signs that nothing has been set in stone yet. Try casually mentioning something like how the guy in the office seems to be on the verge of asking you out. If your guy wants to lay claim on you, he will react and seal the deal with you. But be careful though, letting on that you are quite busy with other guys can spark the wrong kind of impression about you.

From seeing someone to with someone

If you feel the word “like” morphing into another L word, then maybe it’s time to kick things up a notch. Even though guys freak out when they hear the L word, there is one thing that they fall for: compliments. Layer these up and sprinkle it with the L word such as “I love how you smell in the morning” while looking longingly in his eyes. You can also be more expressive in showing your appreciation for his efforts in showing that he really cares for you, such as wearing condoms for safer sex. Who knows, he may even beat you to saying it out loud.

From with someone right now to with someone forever

Steering your relationship to the road to marriage is a little difficult as men balk at the thought of settling down. You can start by hinting how you would like to have more fun with him when you move in together. If he looks forward to being with you forever, he’ll definitely pop the question.

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There are common fantasies that women like us might want to try out with our partners:

1. The sexy French maid and the master of the house: You gotta hand it to the French for coming up with comedic but naughty scenarios involving a maid and her master. Of course, to live out this fantasy, you should rent one of those revealing French maid costumes. (Don’t forget the feather duster too!) Act out situations that allow you to tease your partner, such as bending over to pick up stuff from the floor and showing your cute booty to him. Before you know it, both of you would be shouting “Oui! Oui! Oui!” in bed.

2. The sex slave scenario: Won’t it be fun to have a sex slave who will do your every bidding? Well, in this fantasy, you get to try it out. You can even try to include some light spanking and bondage. Just remember to be clear with your partner beforehand on how far you are willing to go and your limitations.

3. The voyeur scene: Have you ever imagined that someone’s watching you while you’re naked? The thought does sound rather kinky, doesn’t it? In this scenario, you have your partner pretend that he’s watching you secretly during your most intimate moments. You can even turn it up a notch if you let your partner watch you touch yourself or use a sex toy.

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Start by getting your guy’s attention even before he gets home. Call him at work and tell him to come home early because you have something special planned for him. Do this in your sexiest, huskiest voice and he’ll be driving home with his foot on the gas.

Welcome him at the door wearing something slinky and sexy, or with anything that comes off easily. Anything with straps or too many buttons is a no-no. If he gets turned on if you wear his shirts, wear one of those. Do the striptease slowly while your husband sits and watches. Gently chastise if he wants to touch you. This will keep him in an eager and anticipating mood longer. There is no need to hurry because you both have the entire night. To make him want you more, start a sex game that involves the use of “adult props” such as glass sex toys.

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Sex is an important part of a marital partnership. And the best way to keep things going is to keep things hot. So how can you do this with a partner/companion/husband you’ve been with for years? That’s actually where the “extras” come in.

Extras can pertain to prolonged foreplay that you start outside the bedroom. Write or text a sexy note for him to read while in the office. For sure, he won’t be able to wait to get home.

Or, it can mean bringing in implements, such as oral sex toys, into your lovemaking. There are different toys designed for him and for you, all of which intensify the sexual experience, such as prostate toys and pussy pumps.

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There are a lot of things our husbands can do to make us happy, but in general we want men who know how to show their appreciation and men who do not need to be told what to do. This goes for the bedroom as well as for matters around the house. Is the garbage bin overflowing? Men should show the initiative to take the trash out instead of us asking them to do it. Does your husband still can’t decide whether to get you a piece of jewelry or just give you flowers and take you out to a fancy dinner during your anniversary? Drop hints on why he should just do both.

In bed, the love-making act should be a two-way street. Men should experiment on ways to make the sexual act more satisfying not just for them but also for us women as well. And one way to experiment is to have a sex game that’ll titillate both partners.

Men should compliment their wives or partners when they see them sporting a new haircut or wearing a new dress. Most of the time, hearing a simple comment about how great we look from our husbands or boyfriends is enough to keep the spark alive in the relationship.

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