Advice for Women – Female Sexuality, Insights & Tips!

Fantasies make for some of life’s most playful scenarios. These add a certain level of “discomfort” to conventional sex — the good kind of discomfort, that is. You get to shed your skin and live in a new one temporarily with your partner.

There are common fantasies that women like us might want to try out with our partners:

1. The sexy French maid and the master of the house: You gotta hand it to the French for coming up with comedic but naughty scenarios involving a maid and her master. Of course, to live out this fantasy, you should rent one of those revealing French maid costumes. (Don’t forget the feather duster too!) Act out situations that allow you to tease your partner, such as bending over to pick up stuff from the floor and showing your cute booty to him. Before you know it, both of you would be shouting “Oui! Oui! Oui!” in bed.

2. The sex slave scenario: Won’t it be fun to have a sex slave who will do your every bidding? Well, in this fantasy, you get to try it out. You can even try to include some light spanking and bondage. Just remember to be clear with your partner beforehand on how far you are willing to go and your limitations.

3. The voyeur scene: Have you ever imagined that someone’s watching you while you’re naked? The thought does sound rather kinky, doesn’t it? In this scenario, you have your partner pretend that he’s watching you secretly during your most intimate moments. You can even turn it up a notch if you let your partner watch you touch yourself or use a sex toy.

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The Hitachi Magic Wand is an amazing sex toy. It is actually one of the best choices among the pleasure products and sex toy deals in the market.

Why is it one of the best? Well, it is powered by electricity, so you save on battery purchases. This is great for the environment if you are more likely to use disposable batteries. At the same time, you can expect your toy to “perform” as long as you, without fluctuations. And of course, the Hitachi Magic Wand is great in stimulating the clitoris. Its tennis ball head hits the right spot.

If you want more than clitoral vibrations, the Magic Wand has several attachment options. You get to choose from several phallic attachments. These vary in length, girth, and design. There’s a perfect attachment suitable to your sexual preferences. Plus, these add-ons are not limited to one manufacturer. With the popularity of the Magic Wands, several makers have come out with various attachments that fit perfectly with the head of the Hitachi Magic Wand.

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Couples who are always interested in spicing up their sex life can benefit from the practice of Tantric lovemaking, which involves the process of running sexual energy through the body’s erogenous zones. Tantric lovemaking involves using every “chakra” or force center in the body instead of just focusing of the genitals as the only seat of sexual expression and release.

If you want to try Tantric sex with your partner, you can start through the stimulation of the tongue and the mouth. French kissing is one popular way to raise sexual energy with the mouth and the tongue. You can further heighten the sensation using your fingers, wiggling inside the mouth and even a short way down the throat. Some of us women find it especially arousing if we lick our partner’s fingers. Stimulation of the breasts by squeezing or pulling the nipples can also increase our sexual energy and open up the lungs. You and your partner can also use waterproof sex toys when increasing sexual energy through the tongue and stimulating the breasts.

Finally, we can take sexual pleasure to new heights by manipulating our pubbococcygeal muscles (or PC), and using these muscles to bear down, similar to the act of bearing down during childbirth. In Tantric sex, this is the single most effective method that you can do to heighten your sexual response.

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When you’ve decided on using a sex toy, you might be met with a deluge of options. It can get really confusing and overwhelming. There are just so many kinds out there. Some look simple enough. Others, however, look a bit wicked.

If you’re a beginner when it comes to sex toys, keep things simple at first. There are sex toy options that won’t intimidate the “sex toy virgin.”

For women, the go-to toy is the vibrator. When just beginning to explore the pleasures of using them, you can choose discreet vibrators. These are the small types that can look harmless enough for newbies. Some don’t even look like conventional vibrators. Vibrators give you controlled sensations, which you can use on your clitoris. If you are more adventurous, you can try vaginal penetration (or even anal penetration) using these vibrators.

For men, the basic sex toy is the cock ring. Cock rings make erections harder and last longer. Orgasms can also be more intense when men wear cock rings. Also, there are cock rings that come with attachments intended to pleasure the female partner.

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We all have our favorites when it comes to sexual positions and this is totally all right. However, there are positions that have come and stayed in our minds. These are so amazing that every woman should try them at least once.

1. The Deep Entry Position: This one has the man on top, the same old position you usually see and do, but this time, the position allows him to penetrate deeper. Your upper body is on the bed while your lower half is dangling on the floor.

2. The Squatting Position: This is a rear entry position where you support yourself with a chair.

3. Woman on Top: Of course, this will be on the list of must-trys. This position allows you to have complete control of his speed and the depth of his thrusts.

4. Sideways Position: This one is also an old favorite and a must. If you go for slow and romantic moves, this is it!

To make things more exciting, try using sex toys such as pleasure beads first before trying out any of these amazing lovemaking positions.

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Now, this topic has always been tricky. There are so many issues and sidesteps to take. Female sexuality is so unlike male sexuality. With most males, it’s a simple wham-bam to orgasm. With us women, however, sexuality is not merely that twinge in the pelvis.

For us, sexuality encompasses more than our sexual urges. If we just focus on these, we simplify everything, and usually, we don’t work that way. A woman’s sexual being is a mix of the erogenous zones, the mind, and, often, the emotions. From experience, our most intense orgasms have been with partners who not only stimulate the obvious body parts that need sexual attention. The best partners have been those who can also stimulate our mind and our heart.

So, unlike men with whom arousal may just be a matter of tugging at their bits or experimenting with sex enhancers or naughty toys, getting a woman “into it” is a little more difficult. As empowered women, we should be aware of this aspect of our lives. A keen awareness of our sexuality can lead us to have better sex lives.

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