Advice for Women – Female Sexuality, Insights & Tips!

You’re probably hearing that Avenue Q song about the Internet and porn in your head right now. Thanks to the Internet, your partner seems to be on the computer forever, watching porn and looking at pictures of barely-clad women. Should you be bothered by this?

No.

Especially if you also watch porn, though not as enthusiastic as guys seem to be. Sometimes, you have to look at it this way: asking a guy to stop looking at porn sounds like asking you to stop watching those romance movies or TV drama shows. Porn is one form of visual entertainment like sports and action movies that guys enjoy. Just like how you know that the leading men in your favorite TV dramas are just actors, guys (most of them anyway) know that what they see on porn with all those ladies playing around with anal toys is just for show.

Yes.

If it seems to be replacing the act and enjoyment that you both should be feeling, then it may be time to slow down on the porn marathon. If your sex life is slowly becoming dependent on what’s on the porn channel, then it’s just right to talk and lay down some ground rules.

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It may be one drunken night or when you both were feeling the heat more than usual and you find yourself pulling off your clothes, tumbling into bed with your friend, and thinking of naughty sex games. Alarm bells start to sound in your mind, will this ruin our friendship? Well, there’s only two ways to go about it.

Not really.

See, if it was really time to take the friendship to another level, then this would be the perfect scenario for both of you. A lot of relationships start out as great friendships and maybe it was just time to put into action what your hormones and your hearts have been telling you.

Yes, it does.

But what if one of you just feels it was just the alcohol or the pheromones doing the deed last night? Aside from a broken heart (either yours or your friend’s) well, it just wouldn’t be the same again. If both of you can just shrug it off and move on with your lives, well, it’s better.

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The enduring partnership among couples is partly dependent on the quality time they share with each other. With some quality time, partners can reconnect and catch up on each other’s lives. You and your partner may not have the time to engage in elaborate sex games every night, so reconnection — amidst daily routines, chores, work, and family responsibilities — is important for keeping the passion in the relationship alive.

Of course, this is easier said than done. We tend to fill up our lives with so many things. And because of this, getting together with our partners for some quality time can be hard.

Just how can you sneak in some quality time with your partner? Here are a few tips:

1. Do some of your chores together: Shopping for groceries, doing the laundry, and finishing other household tasks can be opportunites for you to share time with your partner. Remember to have the right attitude and share the work load with him.

2. Get with the new technology: Conveniences like webcams, cellphones, and instant messaging can mean extra time with your partner even when you’re away or busy with work.

3. Promise the last 30 minutes to an hour right before going to sleep to your partner: You can use this time not just to have sex but also to talk and cuddle.

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Some couples know that sex tends to fizzle out the longer they are together. But for others, sex only gets better as they become older and spend more quality time with each other. If you have been looking for a new way to spice up your sex life, a great new trick to try is stripping. Yup, stripping for your guy is not just for young and hot-blooded 20-somethings. Even at 35, you are still in perfect form to pull off a perfect striptease that will leave your guy wanting for more.

Start by getting your guy’s attention even before he gets home. Call him at work and tell him to come home early because you have something special planned for him. Do this in your sexiest, huskiest voice and he’ll be driving home with his foot on the gas.

Welcome him at the door wearing something slinky and sexy, or with anything that comes off easily. Anything with straps or too many buttons is a no-no. If he gets turned on if you wear his shirts, wear one of those. Do the striptease slowly while your husband sits and watches. Gently chastise if he wants to touch you. This will keep him in an eager and anticipating mood longer. There is no need to hurry because you both have the entire night. To make him want you more, start a sex game that involves the use of “adult props” such as glass sex toys.

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Let’s face it, some men are clueless on how to please their wives, whether in bed or what to give them for Mother’s Day. Women, even after 20 or so years of marriage, can still remain a mystery. And because we’re a bit difficult to figure out sometimes, we might as well provide small clues here and there on how our husbands can really please us.

There are a lot of things our husbands can do to make us happy, but in general we want men who know how to show their appreciation and men who do not need to be told what to do. This goes for the bedroom as well as for matters around the house. Is the garbage bin overflowing? Men should show the initiative to take the trash out instead of us asking them to do it. Does your husband still can’t decide whether to get you a piece of jewelry or just give you flowers and take you out to a fancy dinner during your anniversary? Drop hints on why he should just do both.

In bed, the love-making act should be a two-way street. Men should experiment on ways to make the sexual act more satisfying not just for them but also for us women as well. And one way to experiment is to have a sex game that’ll titillate both partners.

Men should compliment their wives or partners when they see them sporting a new haircut or wearing a new dress. Most of the time, hearing a simple comment about how great we look from our husbands or boyfriends is enough to keep the spark alive in the relationship.

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