Having children is an important and serious decision. Wanting or not wanting children is a serious stand. So, if you and your partner are at opposing ends of the issue, your relationship can be seriously tested.

Are you sure?

Before you do or say anything drastic, do some soul-searching. Don’t you want to have kids of your own? What if it was just a phase and you actually secretly want kids?

Have you been honest?

Have you told your partner that you do not want to have kids at all? Have you, at some point, lied about it? Then, it is time to be in the clear and tell your partner that you are not planning to have any kids. If you have been honest about your feelings, maybe it is your partner who is really hoping that you are going to change your mind. Be frank with him: tell him that your decision is final.

Are you ready for the ultimatum?

Again, are you sure you don’t want kids? If you are, then it is probably fair to talk it out with your partner. If he is willing to sacrifice, you can stay together. If he really wants kids, who are you to stop him? Let him go. Find someone who wants a child-free relationship like you.

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