It’s difficult to demand time with your partner without sounding desperate or annoying. If he is your boyfriend, you will sound as if you are the one asking him for a date. If he is your husband, you will sound like a nagging wife. Either way, you should first find out where he spends most of the time and why. It could be that work is keeping him from spending more time with you or it could be that friends are who he prefers to keep company with.

Make bonding moments more pleasurable

You don’t have to make him skip work or to fight with his friends. This does not mean, however, that you are quitting the fight. Just treat him well when he is with you. Give him a back rub after a stressful week at work. This way, he will crave your company rather than his friends’.

Arrange your schedule

Maybe not being able to spend time together is due to your conflicting schedules. Talk about an arrangement that will make sure you will have time together every week. Even if you are very busy with your careers and other social responsibilities, you should value spending time together. This will help make your relationship stay strong.

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