Sometimes, daily responsibilities and chores can douse the heat of wedded bliss. You and your husband may feel less inclined in getting hot and heavy. Or, you may just do the same old bed routine — out of habit or, worse, complacency.

Sex is an important part of a marital partnership. And the best way to keep things going is to keep things hot. So how can you do this with a partner/companion/husband you’ve been with for years? That’s actually where the “extras” come in.

Extras can pertain to prolonged foreplay that you start outside the bedroom. Write or text a sexy note for him to read while in the office. For sure, he won’t be able to wait to get home.

Or, it can mean bringing in implements, such as oral sex toys, into your lovemaking. There are different toys designed for him and for you, all of which intensify the sexual experience, such as prostate toys and pussy pumps.

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