In the past, we may have been taught to shun our sexuality. We were supposed to be conservative housewives who kowtow to the needs of our husbands. In these modern times, we have become independent and self-sufficient, in and out of bed.

However, sex is still a difficult topic to discuss. Just how does a woman experience sex? Is there an “acceptable” standard? Are we all supposed to act like total hos? Or, are we still expected to have some restraint?

The answer is neither. We are free to be whoever we are in bed. The main goal is that we enjoy sex, in whatever way we need to.

This is easier said than done, of course. There is still that persistent veil when it comes to our sexual parts — figuratively and literally.

Literally, it does not help that our major erogenous areas are hidden. Unlike men who have easy access to their “thing,” our sexual organs are deep and are buried within folds of skin. It’s not so easy for a woman to explore and get to know herself sexually. But then, this is an important step in liberating the “real you” in bed and allowing yourself to enjoy sex more. Some experts suggest using adult toys as aids in self-exploration.

Begin to take the initial steps in this journey and, surely, you’ll enjoy what you find at the end of the road.

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