Moving “up” from conventional sex to talking dirty can be a little bit tricky. Although, one advantage of being able to talk dirty in bed is that it adds variation and spice to vanilla sex. But then again, you can’t just switch from girl-next-door to bad girl in an instant. It can freak out your partner, or worse, you might end up being judged.

If you do decide to try dirty talk, start slowly. You may wish to write something dirty at first, instead of talking. Text or message him a short note about how hot your sexual encounter was the other day or how you look forward to your date tonight. The idea is to get a feel for how your partner feels about you talking dirty. You can even talk about the possibility of using sex toys.

If your partner is receptive to it, then you can be more descriptive the next time you make love. Describe how your partner makes you feel, and ask him how you make him feel during sex. Such openness can lead to more graphic word exchanges between you and your partner, whether in bed or during private conversations.

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